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There are those who bemoan the inexorable rise of the mummy blogger. They are invariably the same people who make snide, snarky comments about the rise of the mummy internet forum, who complain that noone is much interested if you wish to share the tedious details of your baby’s potty training, weaning or first words, which may be enchanting for you, but dull-asMidsomer-Murders for everybody else.

And it has to be said, there are lots and lots of us (and, yes, very occasionally some of the details are way-out-there tedious). Possibly too many? Personally I think not. Did the world think there were too many Victorian ladies writing in their journals sitting at their bureaus in the 19th century? Of course they didn’t.  These day we may clutch iPads, sit hunched over netbooks or perched at Apple Macs, waiting for inspiration to strike, but we are simply using the technology of our day, to do what men and women have always felt compelled to do: express ourselves, make contact and feel connected with other human beings, and share our experiences. We may not all be modern day Samuel Pepys, but noone is forcing anyone to read anything they don’t want to.

I will never be one of those women who wants to sit all day talking about childcare and nappies and reward charts, while another part of my brain silently rots away. I will probably always feel a little bit like an outsider mum, wondering how the other local mums manage to juggle organising perfect parties, a full calendar of extra-curricular activities and still have time to get their highlights done  and nails wrapped.

Happily, I’ve discovered that the vast majority of mummy bloggers aren’t like that either. The whole point of mummy blogging isn’t to be competitive or sneering, it’s to be supportive and positive.  And whatever your particular bugbear or take on parenting styles (from attachment parenting to let-it-all-hang-out, Seventies-style, permissive parenting), there’s room for everyone in the ever-expanding online universe.

The blogosphere is full of as many types of mother as there are of non-mothers: charismatic, interesting, intelligent women who have something to say about one of the most important experiences of their lives. That’s why I am off to BritMums Live! to hopefully meet some of them.

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